Monday 9 December 2013

Feeling isolated in a room full of people?


Here’s another story from one of our kind patients in our Now Hear This series, taking about why she chose The Hearing Care Centre.

Jill from Hadleigh, Suffolk

Why did you decide to have your hearing checked by The Hearing Care Centre?
It was about 13 years ago now, I had two small children at the time and I realised they would be chatting away to me on the way to school and I couldn’t hear them properly. What was much more worrying was that I couldn’t hear the oncoming traffic as we stood waiting to cross the road. I was also a teacher at the time and teaching those with high pitched voices in a group, well to be honest it was becoming a nightmare. Saying that I did manage and the children didn’t seem to notice but I would be so tired by the end of each day from the sheer concentration needed. When I went to Karen she suggested also learning to lip read, I would never have given that a thought had it not been for her. The trouble is with hearing loss, people forget that you have a problem as it’s not obvious so they mumble or turn their heads away or worse – put their hands in front of their mouths when speaking! There are times therefore when you can feel very isolated in a room full of people; even just driving in the car, with friends all chatting away.
Hearing loss can make you feel isolated in a car full of people
I literally can’t hear - it’s just a noise which you can’t decipher. Oddly though it’s your own family who forget the most, they will ask me a question or continue a conversation whilst they have their head in the fridge or when the kettle is boiling!

What would you say to others who are unsure about having their hearing checked? 

Go! I initially went to my GP as I knew I was struggling, he suggested I go to see The Hearing Care Centre for a test and to be honest I just sat on his advice for a whole year before I did anything. It was a massive shock when I finally did have it checked but Karen helped me to get over it. The NHS analogue hearing aids are completely useless for me as my low frequencies which they pick up are actually quite good it’s my high frequencies I can’t catch and they don’t help.  I’m very lucky in that my husband has also been very supportive and is a good communicator. Sadly most people are not and you find you are constantly asking them to slow down. I’m lucky in that my hearing loss is moderate and I have a job, it does worry me though that if that job were to end I would struggle in a normal interview situation, especially if they wanted me to answer the phone for them as I need a specially adapted one. Its situations like these people don’t think about when their hearing starts to deteriorate.That’s why it’s so important to get someone like The Hearing Care Centre to look after it. If everyone did as much as Karen and The Hearing Care Centre team do to help with peoples hearing loss, the world would be a much better place.

A hearing test at our offices around Suffolk is simple and comfortable, don't be left in the dark the sooner you come and see us the more we can help.

Until next time

Regards

Karen





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